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Working Remotely but, the Kids are On Summer Vacation!?!? Finding Balance Between Freedom and Boundaries


Summer vacation is upon us, and while it's tempting to let the kids run wild with endless screen time, setting boundaries is crucial for their well-being and our sanity, especially when working from home. As a mom of two—a lively 4-year-old boy and an inquisitive 10-year-old girl—I’ve found that a mix of freedom and structure works best for us. Both kids have summer schedules with built in screen time and summer rules to follow, helping us all maintain a healthy balance. This is also the first summer in a while where my daughter is not in camp for most of the time. We are really working on saving and getting ready for some much needed family trips so sacrifices have been made across the board. But, the Grandparent’s and the village are activated and we will all make sure they have a full summer.


Screen Time Boundaries

First things first, let’s talk screen time. It’s easy to let those minutes (or hours) slip by without notice. That’s why our summer schedule is a lifesaver. Our schedule sets clear expectations on when and how long the kids can use their devices and time that they should spend on other tasks. I also make it very clear that if the ‘must do’s’ are not getting done or the summer rules are getting broken that they will lose their screen time privileges. Flexibility is key, and depending on what we have going on that day the schedule is adaptable, but having these guidelines helps create a balanced routine.

Creating Structure and Balance

Balancing work-from-home responsibilities with kids’ activities can be challenging, but a structured plan will help out a great deal. Here’s what works for us:

1. Set Clear Expectations: Communicate daily plans and expectations with your kids. Knowing what to expect helps them transition smoothly between activities.

2. Incorporate Breaks: Schedule regular breaks to spend quality time with your kids. Short, frequent breaks can be refreshing for both you and them.

This is our summer schedule and house rules. 

3. Encourage Independence: Foster independence by giving your kids age-appropriate tasks and responsibilities. This not only keeps them engaged but also teaches them valuable life skills.

4. Stay Flexible: While structure is important, so is flexibility. Be prepared to adjust plans as needed to accommodate everyone’s needs and keep the atmosphere positive and stress-free.

By balancing freedom with structure, setting clear boundaries, and encouraging a mix of activities, we can help our kids have a fulfilling and enjoyable summer while also maintaining our own sanity. Happy summer, everyone!

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