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Past to Present: Discussing the Tulsa Race Massacre, Tools and Resources for Families



Today marks the anniversary of the Tulsa Race Massacre, a tragic and pivotal event in American history that took place from May 31 to June 1, 1921. On this day, we remember and reflect on the devastation wrought upon the thriving Black community of Greenwood in Tulsa, Oklahoma. This event, often overlooked in mainstream education, offers a profound opportunity to educate and engage with our children about history, systematic racism, historical accountability, and resilience. In 2024 this conversation is particularly timely due to the growing national and global awareness of current injustices and urgent calls for peace and reparative justice.


Discussing this event with your children helps them understand the roots and consequences of racial injustice, fostering empathy and awareness. By acknowledging and learning from past atrocities, we can better advocate for equality and justice in our present and future.

Let's Talk About It

When discussing the Tulsa Race Massacre with young children (ages 5-8), it is important to simplify the story by focusing on the concepts of fairness, kindness, and community. Explain that a long time ago, a neighborhood was unfairly hurt because people did not treat others with kindness and respect. For tweens (ages 9-12), provide more context by explaining racial segregation and how a successful Black community was destroyed due to prejudice and hatred. With teens (ages 13+), engage in deeper discussions about systemic racism, economic disenfranchisement, and the lasting impacts of the massacre. Encourage critical thinking and connections to current events to foster a comprehensive understanding of the tragedy and its relevance today. Below is a list of books and online resources that can help you initiate meaningful conversations with your child.

Recommended Books

1. For Younger Children (age 5-8)

"Opal’s Greenwood Oasis" by Najah-Amatullah Hylton and Quraysh Ali Lansana

"The Day Gogo Went to Vote" by Elinor Batezat Sisulu

2. For Tweens (age 9-12)

"Unspeakable: The Tulsa Race Massacre" by Carole Boston Weatherford

3. For Teens and Adults (13+)

"Tulsa, 1921: Reporting a Massacre" by Randy Krehbiel

"The Burning: Massacre, Destruction, and the Tulsa Race Riot of 1921" by Tim Madigan

Online Resources

1. Tulsa Historical Society and Museum: Offers comprehensive historical information and digital archives about the Tulsa Race Massacre.

2. The 1921 Tulsa Race Massacre Centennial Commission: Provides educational resources, survivor stories, and updates on ongoing efforts for justice and reconciliation.

3. Facing History and Ourselves: Features educational materials, lesson plans, and historical documents to help teach about the Tulsa Race Massacre.

4. PBS LearningMedia: Offers videos, articles, and interactive materials tailored for educators and families to explore the history and legacy of the Tulsa Race Massacre.

Technology makes it easier than ever to learn about the Tulsa Race Massacre and teach it to our kids. With digital archives, documentaries, interactive websites, and virtual tours, we can explore this important event from many angles. These tools along with books and other resources can help us all gain a deeper understanding of the past.

By thoughtfully discussing the Tulsa Race Massacre, we not only honor the memory of those who suffered and lost their lives but also empower the next generation to build a more just and equitable world. Let’s continue to educate, reflect, and advocate for a future where history’s lessons lead to meaningful change.


Ebony Bagley - Internet Wellness Advocate


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